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Even though ministry websites portray the church in a positive light, you have probably heard about someone changing churches or saying they don’t agree with how their current church operates.  The opinions of others can directly impact what the pastor will preach about.

Often, priority is given to topics they think will be the most valuable or helpful and resonate with a majority of those attending a service.  In order to ensure that you have a positive experience at church, here are four tips on how to respond to naysayers.

 

While you might disagree, a naysayer may have a valid concern.  Start by discovering what ignited their dislike or concern and explore potential solutions to it by asking them questions.  Just approach it from a neutral standpoint and then offer your take with an open heart and thoughtful suggestions.

 

At times, you may be tempted to discredit a naysayer.  Perhaps you justify it through a number of reasons but the wiser choice is to usually let God deal with it.  Always keep in mind, not all criticism deserves a response as it may not be well-founded.  The last thing you want to do is to make a negative situation worse by responding when you feel upset.  Take some time to pray and think before you address it.

 

At the heart of Christianity is a constant relationship with God.  If you develop that personal relationship with God, it makes it much easier to avoid what others say about the church.  Your focus remains on your faith and never letting evil or negative criticism take control of the ministry.

 

According to ministry websites, confusing church with church culture can sometimes be misleading.  Naysayers might want your understanding and consideration despite their negative thoughts about the church or what is being preached about.

Be willing to meet naysayers in a respectful way that shows the ministry just wants the best for them.  Furthermore, maintain a positive attitude even when they continue to attack as the reputation of the church is on the line and the ultimate goal is to show the real meaning of Christianity.